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Saturday, January 29, 2005

Prom Dresses and Modesty

I remember my senior prom (won't say how long ago) when girls were moving out of hoop skirts to a "sexier" look. Many of us went with shorter lengths...I mean tea length...not short by today's standards. We wore dresses with straight lines and spaghetti straps.

One friend wanted to be a standout. She was in an ultra-tight, strapless, sequined dress that had a slit from floor to hip. Most of the guys spent the evening making hooker jokes about her. It was sad. She was definitely a standout, just not the way she intended. The message she wanted to send was certainly not the message received by our classmates.

I was reminded of her when I saw this dress on television this week. Later, I enjoyed reading Michelle Malkin's post about the same dress.

The message this dress sends..."I'm desperate to be noticed and I have no self-respect."

Christian women need to speak out--mainly to their own kids--about what kind of message we send when we choose to dress provocatively.

Dannah Gresh offers some practical tools on her blog to help us teach our girls to evaluate their own wardrobes.

Also, I found these websites that have many beautiful modest dresses.

Great Lengths
Sabrina Nicole
Lynnette's

Modestprom has more.

Dory at Wittenberg Gate says that immodesty communicates the message "I'm available." She also advises that mothers with young girls start teaching modesty before their teen years. I plan to sit down with our girls to show them these photos. The message I'd like to send to our daughters..."You're precious...treat yourselves that way."

Franco-American Relations

As if we needed another reason to dislike the French...

French Women Don't Get Fat

Wednesday, January 12, 2005

No Kid Rock...Let's hope so

I see at various sites across the web...Michelle Malkin...World Net Daily...Drudge...that Kid Rock will most likely not be performing at the Bush daughters' inaugural concert.

While I do appreciate his support for the president, I don't see that pulling the right lever on election day negates all the horrific language and pornographic styling of his music in such a way that he should be honored by being asked to perform at an inaugural event.

Had Howard Stern voted for the President, would he have been asked to deliver a monologue during the inauguration?

I'm glad to see that someone's good sense prevailed and that the so-called "sluttiest man in America" will not be offering his brand of entertainment at an event that represents this administration internationally.

Friday, January 07, 2005

Kid Rock at the Inauguration?

I was shocked today when I saw on Michelle Malkin's blog that Kid Rock would be performing at an inaugural concert hosted by the Bush daughters.

Now, I don't pretend to have listened to much of this man's music. After reading his lyrics on Michelle's site, I'm certainly glad my car hasn't been polluted with this kind of language; however, I did have the dubious honor of seeing him on the infamous half-time show in which Janet Jackson was exposed. I was actually more offended by Kid Rock's behavior and lack of respect for our flag than I was with Ms. Jackson's breast.

Former Senator Zell Miller agreed in a speech he gave on the floor of the Senate, "But as bad as all this was, the thing that yanked my chain the hardest was seeing that ignoramus with his pointed head stuck up through a hole he had cut in the flag of the United States of America, screaming about having 'a bottle of scotch and watching lots of crotch.' Think about that. This is the same flag that we pledge allegiance to. This is the flag that is draped over coffins of dead young uniformed warriors killed while protecting Kid Crock's bony butt. He should be tarred and feathered, and ridden out of this country on a rail. Talk about a good reality show, there's one for you."

That about sums it up. A character like this has no place at an inaugural function. Full text of Miller's speech below.


Deficit of Decency in America April 14, 2004

WASHINGTON - U.S. Senator Zell Miller (D-GA) delivered the following statement on the floor of the United States Senate addressing several social issues facing the country:

"The Old Testament prophet Amos was a sheep herder who lived back in the Judean hills, away from the larger cities of Bethlehem and Jerusalem. Compared to the intellectual urbanites like Isaiah and Jeremiah, he was just an unsophisticated country hick.

"But Amos had a unique grasp of political and social issues and his poetic literary skill was among the best of all the prophets. That familiar quote of Martin Luther King, Jr. about 'Justice will rush down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream' are Amos's words.

"Amos was the first to propose the concept of a universal God and not just some tribal deity. He also wrote that God demanded moral purity, not rituals and sacrifices. This blunt speaking moral conscience of his time warns in Chapter 8, verse 11 of The Book of Amos, as if he were speaking to us today:

That 'the days will come, sayeth the Lord God, that I will send a famine in the land. Not a famine of bread, nor a thirst for water, but of hearing the word of the Lord. 'And they shall wander from sea to sea, and from the north even to the east. They shall run to and fro to seek the word of the Lord, and shall not find it.'

'A famine in the land'. Has anyone more accurately described the situation we face in America today? 'A famine of hearing the words of the Lord.
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"But some will say, Amos was just an Old Testament prophet - a minor one at that - who lived 700 years before Christ. That is true, so how about one of the most influential historians of modern times?

"Arnold Toynbee who wrote the acclaimed 12 volume A Study of History, once declared, 'Of the 22 civilizations that have appeared in history, 19 of them collapsed when they reached the moral state America is in today.'

"Toynbee died in 1975, before seeing the worst that was yet to come. Yes, Arnold Toynbee saw the famine. The 'famine of hearing the words of the Lord.' Whether it is removing a display of the Ten Commandments from a Courthouse or the Nativity Scene from a city square. Whether it is eliminating prayer in schools or eliminating 'under God' in the Pledge of Allegiance. Whether it is making a mockery of the sacred institution of marriage between a man and woman or, yes, telecasting around the world made-in-the-USA filth masquerading as entertainment.

"The Culture of Far Left America was displayed in a startling way during the Super Bowl's now infamous half-time show. A show brought to us courtesy of Value-Les Moonves and the pagan temple of Viacom-Babylon.

"I asked the question yesterday, how many of you have ever run over a skunk with your car? I have many times and I can tell you, the stink stays around for a long time. You can take the car through a car wash and it's still there. So the scent of this event will long linger in the nostrils of America.

"I'm not talking just about an exposed mammary gland with a pull-tab attached to it. Really no one should have been too surprised at that. Wouldn't one expect a bumping, humping, trashy routine entitled 'I'm going to get you naked' to end that way.

"Does any responsible adult ever listen to the words of this rap-crap? I'd quote you some of it, but the Sergeant of Arms would throw me out of here, as well he should. And then there was that prancing, dancing, strutting, rutting guy evidently suffering from jock itch because he kept yelling and grabbing his crotch. But then, maybe there's a crotch grabbing culture I've unaware of.

"But as bad as all this was, the thing that yanked my chain the hardest was seeing that ignoramus with his pointed head stuck up through a hole he had cut in the flag of the United States of America, screaming about having 'a bottle of scotch and watching lots of crotch.' Think about that.

"This is the same flag that we pledge allegiance to. This is the flag that is draped over coffins of dead young uniformed warriors killed while protecting Kid Crock's bony butt. He should be tarred and feathered, and ridden out of this country on a rail. Talk about a good reality show, there's one for you.

"The desire and will of this Congress to meaningfully do anything about any of these so-called social issues is non existent and embarrassingly disgraceful. The American people are waiting and growing impatient with us. They want something done.

"I am pleased to be a co-sponsor of S.J. Res. 26 along with Senator Allard and others, proposing an amendment to the Constitution of the United States relating to marriage. And S.1558, the Liberties Restoration Act, which declares religious liberty rights in several ways, including the Pledge of Allegiance and the display of the Ten Commandments. And today I join Senator Shelby and others with the Constitution Restoration Act of 2004 that limits the jurisdiction of federal courts in certain ways.

"In doing so, I stand shoulder to shoulder not only with my Senate co-sponsors and Chief Justice Roy Moore of Alabama but, more importantly, with our Founding Fathers in the conception of religious liberty and the terribly wrong direction our modern judiciary has taken us in.

"Everyone today seems to think that the U.S. Constitution expressly provides for separation of church and state. Ask any ten people if that's not so. And I'll bet you most of them will say 'Well, sure.' And some will point out, 'it's in the First Amendment.'

"Wrong! Read it! It says, 'Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion or prohibiting the free exercise thereof.' Where is the word 'separate'? Where are the words 'church' or 'state.'

"They are not there. Never have been. Never intended to be. Read the Congressional Records during that four-month period in 1789 when the amendment was being framed in Congress. Clearly their intent was to prohibit a single denomination in exclusion of all others, whether it was Anglican or Catholic or some other.

"I highly recommend a great book entitled Original Intent by David Barton. It really gets into how the actual members of Congress, who drafted the First Amendment, expected basic Biblical principles and values to be present throughout public life and society, not separate from it.

"It was Alexander Hamilton who pointed out that 'judges should be bound down by strict rules and precedents, which serve to define and point out their duty.' Bound down! That is exactly what is needed to be done. There was not a single precedent cited when school prayer was struck down in 1962.

"These judges who legislate instead of adjudicate, do it without being responsible to one single solitary voter for their actions. Among the signers of the Declaration of Independence was a brilliant young physician from Pennsylvania named Benjamin Rush.

"When Rush was elected to that First Continental Congress, his close friend Benjamin Franklin told him 'We need you. . . we have a great task before us, assigned to us by Providence.' Today, 228 years later there is still a great task before us assigned to us by Providence. Our Founding Fathers did not shirk their duty and we can do no less.

"By the way, Benjamin Rush was once asked a question that has long interested this Senator from Georgia in particular. Dr. Rush was asked, are you a democrat or an aristocrat? And the good doctor answered, 'I am neither'. 'I am a Christocrat. I believe He, alone, who created and redeemed man is qualified to govern him.' That reply of Benjamin Rush is just as true today in the year of our Lord 2004 as it was in the year of our Lord 1776.

"So, if I am asked why - with all the pressing problems this nation faces today - why am I pushing these social issues and taking the Senate's valuable time? I will answer: Because, it is of the highest importance. Yes, there's a deficit to be concerned about in this country, a deficit of decency.

"So, as the sand empties through my hourglass at warp speed - and with my time running out in this Senate and on this earth, I feel compelled to speak out. For I truly believe that at times like this, silence is not golden. It is yellow."

Crying or Melting?


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Ohhh! You cursed brat! Look what you've done! I'm melting! Melting! Oh, what a world! What a world! Who would have thought a good little girl like you could destroy my beautiful wickedness! Ohhh! Look out! Look out! I'm going! --The Witch from The Wizard of Oz

Perhaps Senator Boxer sees that the end is near for her and her ilk.

Monday, January 03, 2005

What I Did On My Christmas Vacation

Sorry to have taken so long away from the blogosphere. I have taken time to read many of my favorite blogs over the last few weeks, but haven't taken the time to write.

While I was "out" I...

...sewed seven angel costumes, one Mary, and scrounged from other churches to obtain enough shepherds, wisemen, and Joseph costumes to outfit 22 children. My goal this year is to make shepherds and wisemen enough and to have it done by June 25th. I feel that it is important to have the traditional children's nativity. There's something precious about innocents draped in robes and crowned with tinsel welcoming the Messiah.

...baked several dozen cookies. My favorite this year was a wonderful chocolate chip recipe...casualty--one 14-year-old hand mixer...benefit--one new stand mixer to arrive tomorrow.

...made twenty fleece scarves. One of my favorite patterns here. Also, made the cutest hats for a friend's twins. It's neat to see how home-made gifts warm the hearts of friends and family. I hadn't sewn in (yikes) 20 years, but borrowed a machine from a friend and I was off to the races. Daddypundit sat with me and read blogs while I stitched into the wee hours.

I enjoyed saying "Merry Christmas" to everyone I encountered this year more than ever. I felt the fullness of the season this year like never before. I think that the stories of the theophobic assault on the celebration of our Savior's birth emboldened me. I gave a hearty "Merry Christmas" and enjoyed depositing coins in red kettles with a renewed appreciation. I hope your Christmas was equally blessed.